The disease always wants to go towards an excluded person, for example a child who has been given away. Often also to a dead person who has no place in our family. Our normal thinking is exactly the other way round.
Our first question is: How do I get rid of the disease? In this attitude we continue the cause of this illness. We want to get rid of something... not only the disease, but also the person the disease is looking at.
Close your eyes: We are looking inside ourselves, where are we sick? What is our COMPLAINT? We put the complaint or disease before us and we wait... and we wait for the disease or the complaint to move. Where does it move to? Or... who moves-- through this disease? With whom does a complaint or disease want to CONNECT us?
And then we say to the disease, "Please come. Now you will have your place inside of me. Now I'm taking you into my heart."
Many diseases originate from our relationship with our mother. In the book The Cure, the "solution" of a disease is described by "moving towards the mother". The goal of this disease is achieved when the mother finds her place in our heart. It is often observed that many diseases want to come to our father, that is, that the excluded father is sought by a disease.
We look at our complaints and our diseases. We ask ourselves, which of these complaints or diseases ... is waiting for ... our father?